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Sunday, February 15, 2015
Grow Your Shop Series: Customer Satisfaction Tips
Hey guys! Here we are for the second topic of our Grow Your Shop Series. As a shop owner, customer satisfaction has to be top priority. Actually if you are in the customer service business anywhere, it has to be top priority. I've had my share of real job experiences on the front line whether it was a fast food cashier or bank teller. It can be difficult to separate our own personal emotions and professional obligations. Let's talk about how we can make sure our customers are satisfied without losing what we stand for or the quality of our business.
Be A Servant.
First thing is first, it is part of our job to make sure we are being servants. That's right. I didn't say "slaves" and let me explain. There are two types of people who work with customers: servants and slaves. The slave does everything the customer asks even if it means jeopardizing quality and integrity. They are a people-pleasers and will sell customers a service for pennies to make them happy. This eventually causes lack of passion for their brand and in turn makes it all about the mula. Slaves are more prone to lashing out verbally to customers whether or not the customer was in the wrong.
We don't want to be slaves. You cannot build a business with that mindset. The servant has the customer's best interests at heart, they are passionate and compassionate but also for what is best for the business. Servants accommodate requests according to the high standards they have for their work. How does this make the customer satisfied? Most people prefer buying or working with someone who has purpose yet is willing to be flexible enough to bring forth a product they want. In the end, they will feel good about spending their hard earned money on something you created.
Being a slave will leave you burnt out because not everyone can be pleased (shocker I know!) Being a servant, however, not only takes care of what the customer wants but your business still maintains it's value.
Reputation Has Worth.
We've seen it many times. A very upset seller takes to the internet and publicly blasts a customer. Many of us have done this especially in the early stages when we are learning and have so many high expectations. There have been a few times that I've even seen shop owners respond to negative feedback in their shop with a rebuttal as if they are on trial and are stating their side of the story.
Let's think about this. How would we feel about McDonald's if they published a statement claiming one of their customers deserved the service they got because they were wrong. Regardless if the customer was in the wrong, it is never professional or right to argue especially publicly.
Your reputation as a shop owner has worth. I personally would not feel comfortable purchasing from someone knowing they are comfortable with humiliating customers just to be right. This creates a web of distrust. Customers will not be satisfied...CANNOT be satisfied...if they can't trust you. We have to be shields. When someone throws bullets, we need to be strong enough so they don't penetrate but are close enough for us to learn a lesson. And we shouldn't manipulate the situation so that the bullets fire back at our customers. How we handle relationships shapes our shop reputation.
Love On Them.
Leave love notes in their packages. Include sweet gifts in every envelope. Thank them non stop, email them to make sure they've received their order, throw them a discount code for next time. Just be nice and love on them! It's not rocket science. It's appreciation. It always feels good to know someone appreciates you. Our customers need to know we do. We can't just assume they will be satisfied because they bought something they wanted from us. They aren't buying a product...they are buying a piece of you. They are buying a part of your brand.
Take some time to make sure things are wrapped clean and include extra goodies. I learned this early especially since people are buying handmade. It's personal. Customers are real people with real feelings, not just numbers on a stats sheet. Do what you can to make sure those feelings are warm and fuzzy. Showing love doesn't cost anything but the rewards are so much sweeter.
Read the first part of the series about Social Media Etiquette right here.
Friday, February 13, 2015
5 Ways To Decorate On A Budget
Hey Guyssss! I'm Michelle and you can catch me blogging over at Let It Shine. I blog mostly about my life, sometimes about my projects, crafts, recipes and sewing. Mostly sewing. I love it like serious. Other things I love like serious? My kids, my husband, being a Christian, and beautiful things. Oh, and my favorite color is gold. So now that we are properly introduced, let's talk about decorating!
If you've visited my blog, you have probably heard me mention a few times about us moving into a new rental. We LOVE it here. It's a ranch style house which is kind of a treasure in this area of Virginia. The kids have bigger bedrooms, we have a bigger kitchen, and we also have a little foyer and a HUGE living room area...at least huge compared to what we used to have. And the summation of all this is, I finally have room to decorate in this home! At our last house I always felt stifled by the tiny amount of space and to be honest, decorating just seemed like a waste when there was really nothing to decorate.
We are so blessed to have this new home for however long we'll have it. I'd love to paint and I can't even imagine how crazy I'll go when we finally purchase a home, but for now I am so thankful to have a space to decorate. But, as with everything else in my life, I'm definitely having to do that on a budget. So here are my best five tips for decorating on a budget. I really believe that even those with the smallest wallets can find some good tips here so keep reading!
1. Plants/Flowers.
Little plants and flowers are so pretty and can be very colorful! I have bought several small (fake) plants and flowers. What I have I purchased at Ikea, Hobby Lobby and Michaels. You can find small, very inexpensive vases (I typically spend $3-5) at some of the same stores. It's even easy and cheap to switch out the flowers every few months so they match up with the seasons.
Plater/Plate: Ikea
Milk Jar: Hobby Lobby//Flowers: Michaels
Vase: Ikea//Flowers: Michaels
2. Use Facebook to Decorate!
For those of you who want to have a more cultured look, try some art! I found this amazing piece on Facebook for $15 and I think I was the complete envy of my Van Gogh loving friend. Similar pieces sell at art stores for $200 + but since I found this on a Facebook yard sale site I paid literally a fraction of that price. If you haven't already, search "Your city + Yard Sale" on FB and see what pops up. I would pick the group/fan page with the most members for the results with the most variety. Or ask to join several groups. Most will let you post "ISO" (In Search Of) and just try asking to see what people have that they are willing to sell. You could also try Craigslist. As always, please be super careful when meeting with strangers. Always meet in public! If you don't like the idea of using the internet, try your local thrift stores or even go to garage sales.
3. DIY
If you are wanting to show your creative side, there are some awesome projects you can do yourself that will be quite the statement piece. I got the idea to make this fabric map from Pinterest and there is another project from Pinterest I'm wanting to do too. It's no secret that I sew, and though these projects require fabric, they actually don't require a sewing machine or any sewing at all. You can use iron on transfer paper to make these beautiful projects. All you need is the paper (at your local craft store, or even Walmart sells this) and an iron. And fabric, of course! Easy peasy lemon squeezy.
4. Printables.
Printable art has become quite popular over the last few years. There are so many free options on Pinterest. I have searched many times for specific things and have been able to find most of them for free. Etsy has a lot of great options for printables too and the customizable options are basically limitless. Sites like (my ever favorite) Groopdealz and Brickyard Buffalo often offer cute printables at steeply discounted prices. And if none of that fancies you, try using a site like PicMonkey to make your own! I have made several printables on display in my home right now.
5. Garland.
Garland is a great idea for easy, inexpensive decor. They can be hung over doorways, on mantles, on entertainment centers, on a kitchen bar, even on a bare stretch of wall. You can make them with tissue paper, tassels, fabric scraps, burlap, pom poms and that's not even all of your options! You can buy garlands for fairly cheap at stores like Target or Hobby Lobby or you can make your own with supplies you can buy at a local fabric or craft store. Search Pinterest for tutorials on the specific kind you're interested in to get you started.
Heart Garland: Target (only $3!)
And just so you know, guys, the lighting in my living room was fairly terrible when I took these photos. My heart was sad, but hey, you win some you lose some. Overall, I feel like the decor is a win. Happy Decorating!
Michelle is a sewing mama of two in love with photography, fabric, anything sparkly and chevron, DIY projects and silliness. She can be found blogging here and on Instagram here.
Wednesday, February 11, 2015
Grow Your Shop Series: Social Media Etiquette
Hey there! We are kicking off a new blog series called Grow Your Shop, dedicated to all you hard working entrepreneurs out there. While many of you blog, many of you also run online shops (or maybe you would like to). I'm still learning every day when it comes to growing a successful online store but have learned a lot in the last 5 years by getting my hands dirty. From name changes to product launches to social media oops, mistakes happen. The key is to keep taking those mistakes and using them as bricks towards building your goals. Today is all about social media etiquette and how this effects the growth of our brand overall.
What is Social Media Etiquette?
Oh glad you asked! In order to define what it is, let's break down the phrases first:
Social Media = websites and applications that enable users to create and share content or to participate in social networking. For example, Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest...you get it. (I know this seems basic but bare with me!)
Etiquette = the customary code of polite behavior in society or among members of a particular profession or group.
Social Media Etiquette is the customary code of polite behavior within the context of social networking. Short version: how you should act online. Seems simple right?
The funny thing is, though it may seem trivial, I've come across many different people who are so focused on growing their shop and are not educated in the proper behavior to promote their shop through social media. I've also made some not so great moves when it came to social media etiquette. Here's a few things I've learned.
"FOLLOW ME!"
Time and time again this is what I used to leave as comments with a link to my shop. Not only is this improper etiquette but it really is ineffective. The reader can sense the newbie desperation jumping off the screen. It is not polite to ask for a favor when you haven't taken the time to get to know the person first. And even if you are a huge fan on Instagram and double tap all their photos, it's basically telling them what to do. Come on, we don't like to be told what to do!
Honestly when I see this, it takes every ounce of me not to call the person out on it. You want to gain followers? That's fine! Leave comments about how you really feel about a person's work, how they inspire you, love their style and flair. After you can simply leave a link under your name. That's it. A genuine comment about that other person or their work and then add your shop under your signature. It's professional and puts you in a different category.
LINK VOMIT
It seriously is as gross as it sounds. There have been times I loved a person's shop, visited their Twitter page and was doused with a bunch of links to their products. Nothing else. Social media is about social networking. To mingle, chat, exchange information with other talented folks. It's not just a platform for your self promotion. A good balance helps followers digest things easier. When we keep shoving links, links, links...it will soon get old and mundane. You have to show people you care about what they care about before they care about what you care about. Did you get that? Phew!
A great rule of thumb (mainly on Twitter and Facebook) is to share four other posts or links from other people then one of yours. It might sounds backwards like we are giving them more exposure but being nice always pays off. Make sure you share things you really like. Be genuine. Don't worry about them getting exposure. The reality is that the link to your shop is attached to your social media accounts. Whatever you share will be seen even if it is someone else's and most people will want to check out your profile for more inspiration.
GET ENGAGED
Let's say social media was a big company party. There's Lulu against the wall speaking to no one. Marty is too busy talking about himself that everyone is annoyed. Henry is just plain rude and knows everything about everything. Then there's Justine. She's friendly, shakes people's hands, introduces herself. She asks people about what they do, makes them feel special and keeps the conversation lighthearted. If these four different people were shops on social media, which one would you buy from?
We will automatically gravitate towards the person that is showing interest in who we are. It's selfish human nature. We really can't help it. If your shop were one of the people above, which one would it be? When we break the mindset that our shop is "ours" and concentrate on a target audience, this is when things will blossom. Ask your followers questions. Get feedback on new products. Talk about what they love and share your heart.
Social media etiquette goes so much deeper than just sending your link out to potential customers. It's a chance to share your story, your knowledge, your journey. To connect with others who love what you love. Don't worry about gaining followers. If you can make the followers you have into friends, more will come. And anything grows when you have good friends.
Monday, February 9, 2015
14 Modest Valentine Outfit Ideas
Welcome to the week of love! As we gear up for the most romantic weekend of the year, we would like to share some super cute modest outfit ideas you can easily incorporate into date night. Flashes of pink, dashes of red and sprinkles of white, these are sure to make a classy impression for any Valentine event!
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Saturday, February 7, 2015
10 Ways to Fight off Winter Blues
If you live anywhere near snow, chances are by this time you are very, very done with winter. The holidays have been over for weeks at this point, the new year has since lost its charm, and in the wake of red hearts and chubby cupids winter is becoming a drag. But don't lose hope! While bundling up in your fluffiest winter coat pales in comparison to the thought of a warm, relaxing week in Maui, you can beat the winter blues with a few of these winter-weather activities!
1. Instead of complaining about the yucky weather, embrace it!
Use it as a time to get caught up on the latest fiction novel, your own writing, or a start a new crafting hobby. Create a cozy space with your favorite throw, a pair of slippers, and a comfy chair. Next, if you have a fireplace, crank that baby up to set the tone for some perfect "me-time" for an hour or two. To finish the scene, pour hot chocolate, tea or coffee into a feminine mug. Final step? Enjoy!2. Plan a family game night.
If you're feeling a bit dull and depressed from lack of sunlight, chances are the people you love are feeling the same thing. Spruce up the atmosphere with a family game night and create sunshine within your hearts! Invite friends, family and acquaintances for an evening of unabashed fun. Instruct everyone to bring their favorite board or card game and a munchie -- because it is absolutely impossible to have a fun time without food. Right?!3. Get moving,
and try out a winter sport for fun! If you know me, you know this sounds absolutely ridiculous coming from my mouth. I am not a sports girl. At all. However, I have come to appreciate snow sports because after sitting inside for hours on end, it feels great to move around and get those endorphins (happy feelings) moving around the brain! Whether you're a cross-country ski pro, an amateur figure-skater or snow angel queen, get outside and move those muscles! Let the cold air bite your cheeks while you move about -- you may discover that the sun actually does shine while it's snowing and that it is one of the most beautiful sights you will ever see.4. Join the gym.
Not to lose weight, but for similar reasons to #3 above. Studies show that when we are active, it releases chemicals to the brain that keep us content, happy, and satisfied. Binging on food high in sugars and carbohydrates may be a quick fix for those pesky winter blues, but exercising regularly creates longer-lasting results than food indulgences. Not to mention, it is much healthier, too! Who knows, it could even open a new sphere of people for you to bring Jesus to and also invite over to game night!5. Go sledding.
Remember that shiny red sled you had when you were a kid? It brought you hours of joy and fun! Go grab the one in your garage, borrow your neighbor's kid's purple one, or just spend $20 at Target for a new one and head to the local hill. It may be a bit more scary now that you're older, but hold on for dear life and show those little kids how it's done!6. Frequent your local coffee shop.
Admittedly, this can become expensive, but if you do it as a treat to yourself once a week or so, it becomes really special and a time to look forward to. If you do go to the same place at the same time every week, you'll notice the consistency of other customers, too. It's a place to form new friendships, build relationships, and ponder the world. Even if you don't drink coffee, you'll leave with an open heart and a sense of connection with others that may not even know.7. Teach a Bible Study.
It's easier to get out of your own funk if you're helping someone to get out of theirs. After you have connected with someone at the coffee shop, the gym, or while sled riding, bring up your faith. People everywhere are looking for a spiritual connection, and yours may be just the one they have been hoping for. Open yourself up to share Jesus ~ prepare a quick Bible study that you can give at a moment's notice, one that highlights the plan of salvation, the creation of the world, and the apostle's doctrine. It will be an event that helps you appreciate what you have and reach out to a soul in need, too.8. Go explore.
Yes, even if it's snowing. Even if it's cold. Bundle up, grab a friend, take some selfies and go! If you live in the city, head to a spot you may not be familiar with. Take advantage of free admission to museums and historical buildings. If you live in a little town, drive to the next town over and look for a hidden treasure; maybe a book shop, a thrift store, a local market, or a general store.9. Take that snow day!
This may be a little difficult for some, but if you're still in school, college or are a teacher, take advantage of the snow day to do something that's been on your to-do list for far too long. Maybe baking those cookies for your elderly neighbor, cleaning out your closet and donating the unwanted items to a local charity or brush up on an old talent.10. Cultivate a relationship with Jesus Christ.
Life is weird sometimes, and sadness/depression/boredom/winter blues can set in at any time. But if you keep your relationship with Jesus a priority, it will be easier to fight off those feelings of anxiety and unhappiness. Read your Bible, use a devotional, write in a journal. You'll find that those devotions will often be of use in your conversations with others and that other times they minister directly to your heart in a way that you didn't know you needed.Nichole Criss is a music instructor & entrepreneur. She loves to read, travel and write. Visit her website and be sure to follow her on Twitter and Instagram.
Wednesday, February 4, 2015
Tutorials: 2 Dutch Braided Hairstyles
Hey,
friends - It's Lizzie here, and I am so excited to show you all how to
recreate these fun and easy dutch braided hairstyles. I am a little
baffled by how braids are still "the thing". It seems to me like they
are here to stay, but I mean I am not complaining. I enjoy adding a
braid to my hair to make it pop.
Recently
I have been into dutch braids. I have been incorporating dutch braids
in most of hairstyles. They are fun, easy, and you can actually spot
them in my dark hair. Sounds like a dream. The best thing about these
hairstyles is that they are not time consuming. This leaves you with
extra time to do some important things...like brewing some tea, reading a
book, or having some doughnuts. Yum!
Well anyway lets get started!
Step 1: Grab a section from the front of your hair. This is going to be our massive dutch braid.
Step 2: Separate this section into three different sections, and begin french dutch braiding.
*A
french dutch braid is the same as a regular french braid. The only
difference is that instead of bringing the outer edges over the top
towards the middle, you will be bringing the outer edges underneath
towards the middle.
Step 3: Continue braiding until you reach the end of your hair.
Step 4: Secure with an elastic.
Step 5: Tug on the dutch braid to make it appear thicker and fuller.
Step 6: Tug away until your braid is nice and thick.
Step 7: Grab the end of your braid and roll it around in a bun. Grab bobby pins, and you are done!
Yay! Wasn't that easy? I like this hairstyle because the dutch braid gives it an edgy look.
Hairstyle #2:
Step 6: Grab a section from the crown of your head. You are going to create a half-do.
Step 7: Bobby pin the section you grabbed and create your half-do.
*This adds volume to the crown of your head. If you have straight hair like I do, we need all the volume we can get.
I love these braided undos more than the
traditional updo because of the dutch braids. I hope you enjoyed this
hairstyle tutorial, now go and have some tea, while you read your books,
and munch on some doughnuts because you have the extra time to do so.
Tuesday, February 3, 2015
Hello Blog Contributors!
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Top left: Sarah / Top right: Nichole / Bottom Right: Lizzie / Bottom Left: Michelle |
We're so excited to introduce to you our new lovely Hello Awesome Blog Contributors! This group of ladies are incredibly talented and will be sharing their knowledge through modest fashion posts, DIY projects, hair tutorials, and so much more! Here's a little bit about each one. Follow their awesome blogs and social media accounts, you will only be inspired and uplifted.
Instagram: @missnicholecriss
Twitter: @msnicholecriss
Website: nicholecrissmusic.com
Blog: nicholecriss.com
From: North Canton, Ohio
Business: Pianist, Music Instructor, Entrepreneur, Editor of She's Intentional: The Dainty Jewell's Blog, contributor to Coast to Coast Central Blog & S.A.F.E. Homes Devotionals
Interests:
traveling, discovering new coffee shops, reading self-help books &
classic literature, attending orchestra concerts & meeting new
people.
Instagram: @hazel_and_bean
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hazelandbean
Starbucks loving, modest fashion enthusiast, small business owner/creator of Hazel & Bean. Heart for families with special needs children and families wanting to adopt. Thrift store lover, wood burning guru and stylish New England beauty.
Blog: thekindhearted.com
Lover of photography, writing, hair tutorials and Jesus.
Blog: www.letitshineblog.com
Sewing mama of two in love with photography, fabric, anything sparkly and chevron, DIY projects and silliness.
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